I'd like to come to the Kinky Club, but I'm a single woman . Rest assured, you can come with complete peace of mind. Regularly, and because they feel comfortable, single women come to the Kinky Club. The rigorous selection process at the door and the time we spend with each of our guests allows us to get to know them better and to guarantee that everyone is there to play and respects the rules of good conduct . Don't hesitate to speak to the staff if anything bothers you.
I'm a single man, can I come? Single men are welcome, provided they are talented. By this, we mean, first and foremost, clean and appropriate attire, at least smart casual and black. Regardless of which side of the whip you're on, your behavior must be impeccable; you must respect the rules of good conduct , wait to be invited before participating, and not touch anyone without their consent. At the Kinky Club, it's not your wallet that guarantees entry, but your attitude. Management reserves the right to select its guests and to escort out anyone who disrespects the setting and other patrons.
Can I come without participating? “Everything is possible, nothing is mandatory.” Since pleasure is also visual in BDSM, you are free to simply come and meet us, have a drink, observe, make contact with other players, get a feel for things, discover the KinkyClub, the atmosphere…
Am I sure I'm ready to play at the Kinky Club? We provide the space; it's up to you to create the magic! The atmosphere is perfect for meeting new people, so if you're shy or it's your first time , let us know at the entrance—we'll be happy to welcome you. We try to spend some time with everyone and, depending on our availability, can introduce you to BDSM if you don't feel comfortable sharing your play with other players. Themed workshops are organized monthly to (re)discover a particular practice. Scenarios are created spontaneously on the spot, or sometimes, they're planned in advance.
How do you connect with other players ? The Kinky Club is all about conviviality. At any time of day, the baroque lounge is perfect for conversations and meeting new people, although these can also happen discreetly in one of the game rooms. Players who come to the Kinky Club enjoy meeting new people, chatting, and sharing experiences. The easiest way is to approach people politely and start a conversation. You can also ask Alex, Stephanie , or one of the bartenders; they'll be happy to introduce you.
I want to participate in a game scene in progress, how do I do it? If you haven't already met or exchanged a few words, the best thing to do is to enter the players' field of vision and wait to be invited (usually by a gesture, a word or a look) or offer your services (waiting for a positive response before putting your money where your mouth is).
I'm looking for additional players to join my game scene, how do I do that? It can be a lot of fun to invite guests of your choice to join your scene or to let them know that they can find you in a particular room if they want to.
What should I wear? The Kinky Club tries to avoid stereotypes; however, a simple black outfit and dress shoes are the minimum requirement. We are sharing an article from the website Cris et Chuchotements (Screams and Whispers). Women are free to indulge in any style they choose, and wearing trousers is permitted. If you have any questions, please contact us by email; we will be happy to advise you. Wearing leather/latex is optional, not mandatory.
Prohibited: jeans, sneakers, colored/white polo shirts, overly casual
Accessories and hygiene: Ask Alex or Stéphanie for advice, or ask at the bar. We can advise you and introduce you to BDSM accessories. We lend them to you free of charge, clean, and expect you to return them in good condition at the end of your sessions. Tissues and hand sanitizer are available in all rooms if needed, as well as condoms and lubricant sachets. A shower room and small towels are available upstairs for freshening up.
Drinks and Games: Common sense prevails; when your mind is clouded, your vigilance is impaired. A drink of your choice is offered upon entry. Afterward, you are free to consume whatever you like (from soft drinks to champagne, including our house cocktail menu). Remain mindful of your behavior, your perception of the other person if you are dominant, or your feelings when submissive. Some practices are riskier than others; a clear mind allows you to play safely. Management reserves the right to escort you out in the event of inappropriate behavior.
Can we engage in swinging at the Kinky Club? Swinging is permitted, as are sexual practices. Condoms and lubricant packets are available in all rooms, as well as a shower room and small towels for freshening up upstairs. The rules of consent apply here as well: wait to be invited before participating.
Determining Your Limits: This is a vast topic and deserves more than a few lines. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced practitioner, it's important to be able to establish boundaries and think beforehand about what you want to explore. Feeling is essential, as is safety. Not everyone who is submissive is a masochist, and vice versa; dominant partners aren't all-powerful magicians. It's necessary to agree on a range of play, intensity, and a safe word . Keep in mind that health problems or unstable emotions can influence a session, and it's healthy to discuss this with your partner. Alex and Stéphanie are available if you'd like to discuss this crucial topic in more detail.
