I would like to come to the Kinky Club but I am a single woman. Rest assured, you can come with complete peace of mind. Regularly and because they feel confident, single women open the doors of the Kinky Club. The rigorous selection at the door and the time we spend with each of our guests allows us to get to know them better, to guarantee people who come to play and respect the rules of good conduct . Do not hesitate to report yourself to members of staff and ask them if something bothers you.
I'm a single man, can I come? Single men are accepted, when they are talented. By this, we mean first of all, clean and appropriate clothing, at least city and black in color. Whatever your side of the whip, your attitude will be impeccable, you will respect the rules of good conduct , wait to be invited before participating and will not touch people without their consent. At the Kinky Club, it's not your wallet that guarantees you entry, but your attitude. The Management reserves the choice of its selection and that of accompanying a person who does not respect the setting and the guests.
Can I come without practicing? “Everything is possible, nothing is obligatory”. Since pleasure is also visual in BDSM, you are free to simply come and meet us, have a drink, observe, make contact with other players, take the temperature, discover the KinkyClub, the atmosphere...
Am I safe to play when coming to Kinky Club? We put the places at your disposal, it’s up to you to create the magic! The atmosphere is made for meeting people, if you are reserved or this is your first outing , report yourself at the entrance, we will be happy to welcome you. We try to spend time with everyone and can, depending on our availability, introduce you to BDSM if you don't feel like sharing your games with other players. Themed workshops are organized monthly in order to (re)discover a practice. The scenarios are created spontaneously on the spot or sometimes organized in advance.
How to get in touch with other players ? The atmosphere at Kinky Club is conviviality. At any time, the baroque lounge is very suitable for discussions and meetings, although these can be done secretly in one of the games rooms. The players who come to Kinky Club like to meet people, chat and share. The simplest thing is to approach with courtesy and start a discussion. You can also ask Alex, Stéphanie or one of the bartenders, they will be able to put you in touch.
I want to participate in a game scene in progress, how do I do it? If you haven't already gotten to know each other or exchanged a few words, the best thing is to enter the players' field of vision and wait to be invited (usually by a gesture, a word or a look) or offer your services (waiting for a positive response before putting your money where your mouth is).
I'm looking for additional players to enter my gaming scene, what should I do? It can be very fun to invite the guests of your choice to join your scene or to tell them that they can meet you in this or that room if they want.
What outfit should I wear? The Kinky Club tries to avoid stereotypes, however, a sober black outfit and city shoes are the minimum required. Here we relay the article from the Cris et Chuchotements website. Women can indulge in all their fantasies; they are allowed to wear pants. If in doubt, contact us by email, we will be happy to advise you. Wearing leather/latex is an option, not an obligation.
Prohibited: jeans, sneakers, colored/white polo shirt, outfits that are too casual
Accessories and hygiene Ask advice from Alex or Stéphanie as well as at the bar. We can advise you and introduce you to BDSM accessories. We lend them to you free of charge, clean and expect you to return them to us in good condition at the end of your games. Tissues and bactericidal gel are at your disposal in all rooms if necessary as well as condoms and pods of lubricating gel. A shower room and small towels will allow you to freshen up upstairs.
Drinks and games Common sense makes sense, when you have a foggy mind, vigilance is impacted. A drink of your choice is offered to you at the entrance. Then, you are free to consume whatever pleases you (from soft drinks to champagne through our house cocktail menu). Stay attentive to your behavior, to your reading of the other if you dominate or your feelings in submission. Some practices are riskier than others, a clear mind allows you to play safely. Management reserves the right to escort you in the event of inappropriate behavior.
Can we libertine at Kinky Club? Libertinism is authorized, as are sexual practices. Condoms and lubricating gel pods are at your disposal in all rooms as well as a shower room and small towels to freshen up upstairs. The rules of consent also apply here: wait until you are invited to participate.
Determine your limits The subject is vast and deserves more than a few lines. Whether you come to discover or are an experienced practitioner, it is important to be able to set a framework and think in advance about what you want to explore. Feeling is essential, as is safety. Not every submissive person is a de facto masochist and vice versa; the people who dominate are not all-powerful magicians, it is necessary to agree on a range of games, an intensity and a safe word . Keep in mind that a health problem or an unstable emotional state can influence a session and that it is healthy to share this with your partner. Alex and Stéphanie are at your disposal if you wish to discuss this essential subject in more detail.
